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 Just a couple of weeks ago, I was invited into a large corporate
headquarters of a brand name company which I'm sure you've probably heard
of. 

  (In respect to the folks I met there, I won't mention the company name.)

  I was invited to meet with the Sales Training Manager and his staff
because they were interested in seeing if Unlock The Game could help their
sales team performance.

  Apparently the "economy" was affecting sales and they were looking for a
different sales approach.

  I don't usually wear a suit these days, since I mostly work from my office
-- above a bakery -- just a quick three minute walk from my home here in
Sydney, but I thought it would probably make a better impression if I
dressed up rather than come in my usual attire: shorts, shirt and sandals.

...So I put the suit on.

  But since the kind of person that connects with Unlock The Game is usually
someone who is actually doing the selling, rather than someone managing
sales people from a spreadsheet or training room, I wasn't about to set my
expectations too high.

  But off I went to our meeting to see what they had in mind.

  The receptionist at the front desk was kind enough to walk me to the
conference room as I waited to meet my hosts.

  As I sat there alone, I couldn't help but to notice how sterile the room
felt.

  Just a white board and some white walls.

  I'm sure you've been in a meeting room like that at least once or twice in
your career.

  After a few minutes of waiting, my hosts came in and began to introduce
themselves.

I of course briefly said who I was and then began by asking "Can you tell
me a little about your situation?".

  That's the question I always ask when I'm meeting with someone new. (Tip:
that question is one of the opening phrases I teach in my Inner Circle
program. It does wonders for opening up the conversation around issues that
might be on the other person's mind).

  The head honcho, the Sales Training Manager, a quite serious guy, started
to talk about the make-up of the sales force, the consolidation of different
departments and a history of the sales training the sales force had been
exposed to.

  It was the usual suspects.

  The sales team had been through SPIN Selling and Miller-Heiman training,
typical traditional corporate sales training that most large companies have
adopted over the years.

  I asked, "So what's the issue with SPIN Selling?"

The Sales Training Manager began explaining that his sales team was really
good at asking questions to their prospects, but the answers they would get
back were at best, "half-truths".

Half-truths, hmmm, this was starting to get interesting.

  He went on to say that their prospects were reluctant to open up to the
sales people because they didn't trust that the questions being asked were
for their benefit, but rather only for the sales person's advantage.

       A lack of trust, now this conversation was starting to get even more
interesting.

  Then he mentioned that his sales team uses account management sheets from
Miller-Heiman, where they're supposed to write down the details of all the
players in an account along with strategies of how to move the sales process
forward.

  The problem with that, he said, was the information they were putting on
the sheets were getting sparser and sparser all the time, because they were
getting less and less quality information from their conversations with
their prospects.

  Are you starting to see a trend here?

       My gut was telling me, they don't have an "economic" problem
affecting their team's sales performance, they have a TRUST issue that was
the real reason their company was losing ground in their marketplace.
 

  And I told them exactly that.

  I went on to say that they've trained their people over the years to be
such by-the-book sales people, that they've lost the ability to connect and
create trust with their prospects at the human level.

  When I said that, they just sort of sat there frozen, looking at me like I
had just said something they knew to be true deep down within themselves,
but were afraid to tell anyone about it.

  This lack of admission and insight is so common in most companies today,
it could almost be called an epidemic.

  I proceeded to explain to them why their corporate training programs were
quickly losing their value and what they needed to do to revive their sales
team and put their company back on the map.

  Here's what I told them:

       1. Begin by recognizing that your people have become so
"strategic"
, they've lost the ability to be completely present when
their potential clients are talking with them.
They aren't LISTENING!

  They're trying to, but since the "next step" has been so drilled into
their minds by all the traditional sales training they've been through,
their trying to move the conversation forward rather listen without a hidden
agenda.

  Listening without a hidden agenda is a core principle we teach to our
Inner Circle members.

      2. Be willing to buck conventional thinking. Rather than start
by having your sales people ask a series of obvious questions designed to
get their prospects to admit their problems, enter the conversation ALREADY
knowing their core problems and begin the conversation with a "problem
statement" in words that come from their prospects, not from your corporate
brochure.

  How do you know those problems ahead of time? You ask your current clients
what are the 3 to 5 core issues that went away after they bought your
solution.

  They tell you in their own words what their problems were.

  Asking questions designed to fish for a prospect's problems just doesn't
cut it in our new economy.

  (Actually, I remember when I was a training developer for UPS about 10
years ago, some of the sales people had the same issue, probing for problems
without being able to articulate them at the beginning of the conversation
only got them B.S. answers.)

      3. Record and listen to the conversations that your people are having
on the phones with your prospects.

  I bet you'll hear a lot of rejection, abrupt conversations ending quickly,
and lots of "pitching" and boasting going on about how great your products
and services are.

  You probably won't hear too many in-depth conversations about the issues
their potential clients are having and a willingness for their prospects to
open up and tell the truth of how deep their problems really are.

  In other words, for many of your sales people, it's over at "hello".

-----------------------

  Before I could conclude all of my thoughts I had wanted to say, they said
they were very interested in rolling out Unlock The Game to their sales team
and wanted a proposal to do that asap.

  I could see I struck a chord in their thinking and they were beginning to
see me as the guy who may have the answer they were looking for.

  I told them I would send them something in a few days, we all shook hands
warmly, and I headed back home in a hurry so I could get back into my shorts
and sandals.

  A few days later, I sent over a brief proposal.

  The same day they received the proposal, I heard back from the Sales
Training Manager that they are just going through a re-organization and will
need to put the proposal on hold.

  Even they were afraid to tell me the truth.

To your success, 

     

    

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8 Comments     Add Your Comments Here

Steve Jenkins, Colorado, USA , April 27, 2009 at 9:41 AM
Ari,

Great story! I agree with Gary from Nevada; your last line was the most telling. Even after giving them plenty of opportunity to tell you the truth, they still held back. With that said, I hope you were able to get back with them and discuss with them how sales training might be a great idea......and discover any OTHER latent challenges they have which they feel are preventing them from going ahead.

Best,
Steve
c.j., Shanghai, China , February 18, 2009 at 9:16 AM

I sure can resonate with that! It's a classic case of "too-little-too-late" The client here, as you mentioned, knew deep down that they are in deep s#%t, and yet refuse to admit it until it's way too late. So late that perhaps management might have decided to close the entire sales office, sales training manager included. 


C.J.

Finn Peacock, Adelaide , February 17, 2009 at 8:33 PM

Ari, Your first point, repeated below is one of the most insightful things I have ever read in my entire life! 1. Begin by recognizing that your people have become so "strategic", they've lost the ability to be completely present when their potential clients are talking with them. They aren't LISTENING! Spot on mate. I have been through spin selling and it turns you into a deceptive, manipulative robot. And when I am on the other side as a customer, you can literally see in their eyes that they aren't listening to you - they are thinking about the next arrow in their 'strategic flowchart' Nice One.


Finn

Charlie Lang / Progress-U Ltd., Hong Kong , February 17, 2009 at 7:51 PM

The biggest problem with trust is the question of care. Our research on the topic of trust clearly shows that three elements are required to get the trust of anyone (professional or personal context, it doesn't matter too much). They are competence, rapport and care. Many sales people are good in competence and building rapport, but what do they really care about? Sadly, the very big majority of sales people care mostly only about getting the deal and the commission or bonus. Unfortunately, hardly any prospect cares about that. So if sales people learn to truly care about the best possible outcome of their prospects independent of whether or not that leads to a sale for the sales people, chances of true trust building increase massively. It's simple but not easy as I know from own experience. During the current economic situation it's even more difficult to NOT care about my own outcome at first but to truly focus on the best possible outcome for my prospect. It's a paradox: the more I don't care about my own outcome, the more likely I get it.


Charlie L.

Dave Melanson, Ontario Canada , February 17, 2009 at 1:31 PM

Ari, I can't agree more with Unlocking The Games strategies. I was skeptical about joining Unlock the Game at first, since I like most other sales people are all about self improvement and looking for a quick fix. You should see my book shelf! LOL The only regret I have is that I left my copy of Unlock the Game with my old employer. Which by the way was able to increase their sales by 100% in 3 months and it is not by $100's of dollars monthly, but by $1000's. Its great to be selling in a recession, you just need to know how.


Sincerely, Dave M. 

Joshua Keen, Atlanta GA , February 17, 2009 at 10:46 AM

What a great post, Ari. Insightful, honest and direct. You're approach and you not being attached to any specific outcome for your meeting is truly an inspiration to all of us "UTGamers".


Josh

Gary, Nevada , February 17, 2009 at 10:27 AM

The action by the company at the end, the way you put it anyway, was the most telling part of this whole story. Too bad you stopped there.


May I take a guess?


Their sales strategies had failed in the face of the intense change that the world and their customers were experiencing. The management had also failed to see it coming, and now the news from their customer base that their solutions and products were fast becoming irrelevant was overwhelming.


The bigger question then showed up - how can our company turn on a dime and find a way to re-engineer what we do so that we are profitable again? Is it possible? Our sales team can't fix it, so now what do we do?


I'm experiencing this in my own small business, although on a much smaller level. Still, the footprint looks the same - customers who are afraid to purchase anything right now, sales people who feel like they are irrelevant, production able to supply a large demand, but one doesn't exist, and therefore, a grave cash-flow trend appears.


Gary


Ari, if you were asking to mend that, what would you propose?

John Carter, Edgecomb, Maine , February 17, 2009 at 10:09 AM

This is a great example of the "mystery" of closing sales. Clearly, they have a problem, and you helpfully pointed out some solutions. However, for whatever reason, they aren't willing to "buy" your solutions. The difference for me now, after learning your "mindset", is that this outcome doesn't mean I'm not a good salesman, but more likely that they are not a good fit for my services.


Thanks Ari! John Carter 


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